Here's my 2 cents....
I would reconsider talking to your husband. I'm sure he is supportive of your efforts to lose weight and be healthy. Perhaps he simply isn't aware how tempting it is for you to see his sugar carnage everywhere. By not telling him you are depriving him of an opportunity to help you. You may be suprised by his response. I'm sure you take care of him in certain ways, it is not unreasonable to want him to help you take care of yourself as well.