hey Peewoddin, if you're burning up the ketones as fast as you're making them, which is entirely possible, none spill out into the urine and get registered on the sticks.
Stick with the diet and forget those sticks. Some people never register any ketones and still lose weight nicely.
Its so hard to start with we all want some signal that something is happening.
It is - but it may not show!
Cutting caffeine down is not a bad plan, but not all plans insist on it entirely - go slowly and gently on yourself.
Some folk stall with artificial sweeteners and some have dodgy health effects so cutting those on a regular basis might not be a bad plan - the odd one isn't going to hurt.
I put double (heavy) cream and the odd mashed strawberry into my protein shakes. yummm
I hear you about the red meat, my DH doesn't eat a lot either, but chicken, all fish, ham, cheese, sausages, bacon, eggs.
Hope you start finding it easier, don't cry my friend, it does get better. In several months and umpteen pounds lighter, you'll wonder what it was all about. I've been doing this for 3 months, so can remember induction vividly but its got much better since.
Take care, Jay