Thanks for all of ya'lls kindness and advice
Christy, Liz, and Laurie - I do tend to be overly sensitive about my weight, so it's nice to get feedback. In restaurant situations I've jumped to conclusions about things he's said and was wrong....like ya'll said...hehe. I'm trying to not be so defensive..and give him the benefit of the doubt.
Jude - Weight is a bit of a dodgey subject for me, but generally I prefer bluntness. Honesty is a good thing. If I had gone on a first date where a guy made a comment like that, it would have been our last too!
Diemede, Meltinaway, Rosey1, and Itsgottago - You know, it never crossed my mind that it could be a issue of insecurity, and I think alot of it is that. Relationships can be tricky sometimes...trying to be honest about your feelings while considering his feelings while allowing yourself to be vulnerable
This is my first deep relationship and I get a bit clueless at times. I talked to him again, and things are better.
I won't stick around in an abusive relationship, so if things get worse and he's not willing to be supportive I know what I need to do.
Thanks for the laughs guys, i needed them! **Mel keeps her eyes peeled for Rogaine commercials and the fragile male ego**