Well maybe you should tell her how much the comparison hurts you...In a nice way. Maybe she is a competitive person??? Is she thin now? If not maybe she would join you on this WOE and be competitive in a good way with mutual supporting.

When I saw my mom for the first time after losing 43 pounds I was waiting and holding my breath for her to notice to say something to approve....nothing she said hi, kissed me and we got in the van. I waited most of the day and then I said i can't take it anymore can't you tell...don't you notice all the weight i lost?? She just smiled and smugly siad yes you look great but I wanted you to know I love you for you not for how much you do or don't weigh......This was kinda nice seeing how when i was there in July she had told me how I looked like I was gaining weight...which I was but definetely denied...