This may be the wrong place for this discussion. I'm not sure where to put it. I've been looking for other threads on this and haven't found them, so here goes...

I have a lot of anger toward the doctors who mistreated me and, in my opinion, either aggravated various conditions or even caused problems. My obesity is partially due to their insistence on low-fat dieting. I REALIZE that I'm responsible, too, but I have a LOT of anger about this and more.

My heart problems were visible when I was 20 and were ignored because I was "too young" to have such problems. When I finally had a heart attack, it was misdiagnosed as a pinched nerve. There's just so much that I can point to and say, "This doctor did this; that doctor did that." I have a good one now, but the first in 40+ years!

So, how do other people deal with their anger? Or, am I the only person who's still harboring a grudge?