Hi...this is pretty personal but I need to know...my period is pretty late and I've taken 2 pregnancy test, 1 week apart, and both came out negative, clear as day negative.

I told my mom and she told me that when she was pregnant for me (I have 2 older brothers) the pregnancy tests AND the blood tests both came out negative until she was 5 months pregnant for me...the doctors were surprised as well...

I have been pregnant once before but due to the circumstances of my life and those of conception I did not keep it. The point of this statement was that my body feels the same now as it did then, it's like "feeling pregnant" if anyone can relate...I actually felt this way before I was even late for my period, I know this because I was checking my journal and was worried about being late about 1 and 1/2 weeks in advance of my TOM.

Things are different now and I would really like to know...I went to a dinner party last weekend and drank about 3 glasses of red wine a 1/2 glass of beer (I know, I know...bad LCer)...If I were pregnant would this greatly affect having a baby? I hear horror stories of retardation and disformation...could I have caused such things in one night?

I don't know what to do and was wondering if someone could suggest a way for me to find out. I do not have a family doctor. But I live in Quebec and have health care so...

concerned...
-mildwild