Hi
I'm in the same boat. I was trying to get pregnant through a fertility clinic in November and had to jump off the diet (well, doing Maintenance without having done OWL and Pre-Maintenance was near impossible). I stayed away from the bad food for the most part.

I am not as focused either but this time I'm not as anxious. I've kept 20 lbs of the weight off and I'm just doing a modified induction/OWL (I'm anywhere from 20 to 30 grams a day). I haven't lost any weight yet - it has been 3 weeks. This doesn't bother me as my pants are losing up and I look better.

I find the weight is not dropping this time because like you mentioned, the focus isn't there. However, what replaces that is a longterm goal of this WOE. I guess you could say I'm discovering my CCLL right now

I suspect my milk allergy may be the reason for no weight loss (I have some kind of dairy almost every day and have to cut myself off from it for awhile to see if that is the problem).