Hey Cherylaust I understand completely! my mom told me that her mother inlaw said that she wasn't feeding me enough for the same reason. Now I have a son of my own and he 2yrs, 34.5" and 25 lbs. Everytime I go and see a new doctor I always worry that they would think I am neglecting him, seeing how overweight I am. Then I heard somewhere that doctors can tell if a child is malnourished by looking at the back of their arms (I'm not sure what they see). My sons arms look the same as the other kids at school so I just let the worries go.

Thought this might help

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