Omg, this thread is a Hoot! You Know give it a try, Bribe him, it might renew your desire for sex! But don't let him know that, just keep the bribe going, LOL

I can speak from having kids, tired from running a business, OOPs, they might hear now there older, you name it, but bottom line, you have to work at it! You have to make time for yourselves, doing that will make so many things go so easily in your, most likely hectic life. I'm also saying that after coming up 30 years of being married to the same man (this Nov) and beleive me, it's still very good, down right fantastic some nights/mornings, LOL.
As for him following the diet, it still must be his decision. ( but there is'nt any thing wrong with the cable being shut off........................) What else is there to do????

Good Luck Kathy