Chebbles,
I, too, have no desire to have children. I don't know if it's part of PCOS (doctor never mentioned that) and I've been on plenty of PCOS boards with many mothers and women ttc.
I played with dolls when I was little, but upon puberty, when all the other girls said they couldn't wait to get married and have families, I didn't even want the married part! I cried when my last single aunt married because I thought she had it all (single, career woman) ....I was 14, what did I know?
When I met DH, he was so happy I had no desire to have kids too. We're too wrapped up in our lives right now, I couldn't imagine having a child now. It may be something I regret someday, but it is our choice, ultimately.
I know what you mean about people thinking there's something wrong with you though. I met a girl yesterday, literally *met* her yesterday--she's new at work--and she asked when I was going to have a kid! To these people, I really want to *use* my PCOS and tell them that I have a problem conceiving...it would really put them in their place....I just haven't had the nerve to say it yet!
But, DH and I always said if we did manage to get pregnant, we would love the child, it would just take some getting used to!
We just moved into a new home, and there's NO room for a baby now....I'll stick with the bc for now!