the weight must come off to fast, causes my wife of 22 years to become a jealous huzzy. shes got it bad, pissed me off last night
acused me of messing around with a lady at work... so if your on the askins diet you need to be very carefull of the other half side effects.
looking for a cure at this time besides the big D. ps shes gone crazy!!

This is because they tell woman that one of the warning sign that the husband is cheating, is him losing weight. Right now she is running sceared. Finds ways to reassure her.

It sounds like she is a bit insecure - this is not only a new way of life for you, but for her as well. Maybe try giving her a little extra attention, tell her how beautiful she is, and how you love her and only her. Then maybe have a heart to heart talk and make it really clear to her that there is no-one else for you!

It is too bad your wife feels insecure...Mary is right. A "warning" sign is a major lifestyle change, which is what you are doing. There are so many reasons to lose weight. Health is a major one. Let her know appearance isn't the only reason you wanted the weight off. Given your job, I would think being healthier, feeling terrific and being in better shape would make things less stressful for you at work. Explain that to her, too. Does she have a weight problem? That could be the root cause of her attitude if she does.

thank you all for your info, she does need to lose about 40 pounds. she dont believe anything i say. come to far i aint know quiter thanks guys...

i agree with the others. She needs to know that you love her, and only her. Show her in lots of different ways. She will get the picture and start to really like the new attention.

thanks everyone, i was just feeling so good about the losing the weight, i should payed more att to her. hey it took me 22 years to train her, i cant see starting over with one thats not even house broken...lol

hey im sorry but ya know whats next, its like a damn soap opra around here. but it is only in her mind. who knows whats next. kinda scared to come home from. work maybe she watches to many soaps.

You're going to have to get into the courtship mode all over again.
Perhaps it is the soap operas, combined with a sense of insecurity, and possibly a little jealousy (maybe she sees the weight loss as being easy for you - and she's seen so many people who have a hard time - and perhaps even herself).

Certainly, I can't get into her head and discover the root of her concerns, but this is a time to tread lightly, and get terribly affectionate (hopefully it won't make her even more suspicious).

Oh dear.............. heres a little different point of view????

I have read some of your posts and I'm not critizing you here, but you have done a fair bit of bragging about the women at work looking at you and not your friend etc, If you have been a little over zealous at home expressing the same information, no doubt you have got her thinking and god knows where thta can lead to with a guy or a girl!
So how about just keep trying to reassure her and tone down the" I've done so well, look so good" cause a little goes a long way with the ones you are with daily

LOL you trained her!!! All us wifes out here know the truth,

Cheers Kathy

oh no if she ever finds that she will be bad.... thanks kathy think ill make a run for it. :0 how do you change screen names kathy

thanks for all the help guys, i guess im in big truble when she finds this site. so i guess if this is the last post ya see from me. you will know she found it. prob
be in the etexas papers lady murders husband over web site post...lol i been trying to get her to start atkins diet it wont take her long to find this site when she does... man im hit either way.... maybe i should put the fat back on at lest it wont hurt as bad when shes hitting me.... man this atkins diet has lotsa side effects should be some kinda warning labels.

LOL so funny!!!

Hey the little faces are'nt working today??

Oh well you know which ones I would of posted, tee, hee!
Kathy

dang it kathy quit laughing, she prob going to kill me.
they wont let me change my screen name, i think their siding with her you women need to quit sticking togther.
ya just when i fugured out this site is a trap for big mouthed maried men i was all ready in it.... believe me i aint prissing no more around here. im hit!