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Originally Posted by LCNewbie44
Citruskiss it was just a lot of stuff about my emotional eating. I thought you would all think I was just an idiot looking for sympathy so I edited it out.
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Nope, I'd never think you were an idiot because I struggle with those same issues. In fact, I just did the same thing the other day (with a post)...I was writing a response to a question in the war zone about "Who do you blame for being fat?", and ended up typing out all this emotional stuff. Went back to edit out the overly personal stuff and somehow ended up wrecking my whole post (because of a weird firefox thing that somehow kept producing a "find" function every time I pressed the apostrophe key)....so I just deleted it all.
This being said, I think what I was saying was an interesting answer to the guy's question. He was asking for people to step up and "blame" someone or something for their obesity and/or weight problem. I responded with something along the lines of not wanting to get into the blame game, but went on to write a bunch of stuff about how I was starting to believe that the real reason I gained weight was because of not listening to my own anger, and using food as a way to shut myself up almost..a way of shutting down.
Anyway, there I go again with the emotional stuff.
But you see what I mean don't you? That lots and lots of us here deal with that very same thing - emotional reasons for overeating. Interestingly, once we've gotten a few weeks of successful low-carb eating under our belts, we end up realizing that part of the problem is the fact that refined carbohydrates and sugar are a big part of the overeating picture, because they are so darned addictive for so many of us.
As with any addictive thing (food, shopping, drugs, alcohol, or what have you), there's still a *reason* we went there - something nagging at us to the point that we got caught up in some kind of addictive/compensating behaviour. All the fat prejudice in our society aside, food is one of the most acceptable addictions one can have, and in my view - it often starts as a coping mechanism we learn as children. As children, we don't have access to other addictive things..and maybe we resort to food, as it's something available to us despite our age. I mean, food is always there. No one freaks out if you eat. If I'd taken up...say drinking at the age of 11, I'm sure Mom would have noticed. But not with food. And, as children, we don't have the autonomy or the maturity to choose other means of dealing with our emotional stress. It's not like we understand enough to suddenly realize, "I should talk to someone about this" or "I should start exercising to burn off some of this stress".
Anyway, I'm rambling...thanks for coming back and explaining the "nevermind" post, I was worried that maybe some of us had offended you with our response to your question about supplements. By the way, there's actually a section on these forums for writing about emotional issues and body image. It's a good place to vent and ask for support around these issues. Not saying you shouldn't write about it here, just mentioning the section in case you ever wanted to take advantage of it.
Don't you think it's interesting that you started out talking about one thing (supplements and diet pills) only to come 'around' to the reason you're asking about them in the first place? Good for you...asking questions leads us to places we might have tried to avoid in the past. You're not avoiding anymore, and you're actually moving forward with this.
Getting back to the food issue - I want to reiterate what I said in an earlier post, and that is ....if you can just get through a week or so without eating more 20 carbs daily, with the bulk of those carbs coming from green vegetables ...you will be so surprised to discover the amazing appetite suppression of low-carb eating. Yes, there are still struggles, and yes special occasions come up to tempt us all the time. Yes we crave sweets from time to time ...and sometimes it isn't always so easy...but believe me - if you can just get through a week of no sugar/refined carbohydrates you will have found an extremely effective tool in dealing with overeating.
Have a good weekend.