The guys are not even worth your second thought, much less your first thought. I have a canned response that I would use if I came up against some rude sob about my weight and that is "I am working on my problem, what are you doing about yours?" Theirs is obviously their rude attitude.

There are good people out there who will be attracted to you at whatever weight you are at. Just let you shine through while you are working on the exterior. It will happen. Then find a person who is capable of loving you at any weight. They do exist.