I think the overweight/fatty terminology doesn't really make sense. Over meaning you have judged what their weight should be, but fatty means you've noted their fat cells.

I can relate to this article, while I hope to lose weight in the future I'm not eating a weight loss diet any longer. I kept cheating and felt I was better off working on keeping tight control of my blood sugar. Happily for me the side effect of that seems to be tiny amounts of weight loss. A lot of the motivation to lose weight that I felt when I was younger are no longer factors for me. There are lots of cute bigger clothes. I feel totally comfortable at the gym or anyplace else I go because their are a lot of people my size. I no longer have any expectations that I have to be perfect to be liked, especially women, seem to like me more when I'm heavy.