Oh darklove! It is definitely the calories!!!!
These guys are right about ditching the bars and the shakes (though making your own protein shake with whey powder and cream and AS....after induction that is, would probably be fine) but don't get rid of the cheese quite yet, ESPECIALLY if it one of your favorite things! Nuts and cheeses stall some people, but personally I think unless you're eating them by the truckload they aren't harmful to most people in small doses. We all want this to be a permenant way of life, and getting rid of all the yummiest things about this WOE and only eating meat and salads would make this a DIET and diets only set you up to fail!!
Darklove, pour that butter on your veggies, add cream to EVERYTHING. It may feel weird after years of low-fat brainwashing, but I guarantee it will help you lose faster. I have been eating over 2000 calories a day consistantly and at 149 pounds, I should be gaining weight, right?
I've actually been literally melting.
Try to aim for 3000 calories (I know, I know, it's hard, this diet is a natural appetite killer) but force yourself. At the very least get up above 2000, because at 1400 calories your body currently thinks it is experiencing a famine (it still thinks it lives in hunter gatherer times, silly thing
) and WILL NOT let go of fat if it can help it.
Screw getting rid of the cheese, and up those calories! Sorry if I sound like a high school football coach, I just get really into this, I love this WOE and there is nothing more exciting than a fat loss whoosh.....and nothing more devastating than trying soooo hard and feeling like a failure.
GOOD LUCK!