Thankyou everyone for all your kind words!!!! I have been spending so much time on this site that hubby asks if i will ever join "real life" again.....lol. He just doesn't understand! I am getting better at navigating throught the site but at times I feel very overwhelmed but the amount of threads here....I never know where to start. I find myself just checking the new posts and hoping i'm not missing anything....lol. This site has been a great find, you are all so supportive. I really feel like i can do this!