Wow! This is an amazing thread! I thank God for it as I was in such a funk tonight and so ready to eat-but then I thought I would post first, and before I could, I began reading this thread. What memories, and what therapy!
I was heavier than my friends from 1st grade, but not terribly so. However, my mom made constant comments about my weight- "don't eat so much"- or, "you'll never lose weight eating like that!"
I too remember WW in high school. Liver once a week, fish three times per week. My saving grace was tuna, which I still love!
But I began to think I was the biggest, fattest, person around. There was only one girl who was fatter than me in High school, but I guess because she was SO fat, that people didn't tease her, they just sort of ignored her. But me, I got the remarks. Fortunately, I had a good set of friends who didn't care about my weight. But dates??? Never! Many guys were my friends but no one wanted to date me. I have to say that I was 170 and 5'6" in school and that's not terrible, but I felt like an outcast. No swim parties, no sleeveless dresses or shirts, no skiing, and no nice clothes. My mother seemed to think it was impossible to find clothes in "my size." So, I pretended I didn't care, and even learned to walk without much "hip movement" just in case I would be teased "from behind. I have always been extremely self-concious, and it has only been in my 40's that I stopped caring how I looked to others, which inspired me to look better. My husband has been a great support and has never made negative comments. I went from 200 to over 300 in the past twenty years with lots of losses and gains. Even my heart pounding when I climbed stairs and not being able to breathe was not enough.
What finally did it for me, was when the Dr. wanted to put me on cholesteral medicine. That was in addition to bs meds, bp meds, anti-depressants, and water pills. Something just made me angry and I vowed not to take any more pills and to do something about the shape my body and my health were in! that was two weeks ago, and here I am on day 16, wanting to eat-scared that I will, and scared what will happen if I don't! I have never functioned as a thin person. And I can relate to the person who said what she saw in the mirror was not her! I feel exactly that way!
I was so ready to eat tonight!!!! Stress was just getting to me and I wanted to stuff myself!
I ate, but it was all legal. So, now I am waiting for hot wings to be brought home.
Thanks to everyone for their replies, they have been a great help to me, even though I didn't start the thread.
Ahh...am beginning to calm down now-think I'll go have a very large glass of water.
I add my apologies to the list for "rambling" but it certainly does help!
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