Hi Moonbeam!

First of all, congratulations on your loss! 70 lbs, that is AWESOME!!! you should be so proud of yourself!!!!


As for your experience, I just have to agree with what everyone else has been saying....screw 'em! Sometimes I feel sad and lonely too and wish that I was skinnier and I curse myself for being fat..."if only I was thin, then everything would be great and I would have a nice boyfriend". But the truth is, you deserve to be adored by a great guy no matter how much you weigh. A guy who will judge you by your pant size and not by your spirit is not the nice guy you want to be your boyfriend. Sometimes, I try to make myself feel better about being overweight when I am lonely. At least when you are this weight, you can easily tell who likes you for you and who is into an image.

You will find somebody, and it won't be because you lose 10 or 100 lbs, it will be because you are a good person who deserves to be happy!!!!


So cheer up!!


~*Shannon