well, i've lost 70 lbs as of today. i really thought i was doing great.....i feel better, look better, and am (i thought) attracting some male attention. i joined a local online dating service to meet some new people b/c i am recently divorced, and the emails i get are 1. all weirdos, or 2. poeple making insensitive comments about my weight ("240? awww geez....go to jenny craig or something...who did you think you were kidding?") so my question to myself is, who do i think i'm kidding? i mean i really thought that i could do this, look great, and all that. but, really...am i always destined to be the ugly fat girl? will i be ignored and treated badly for the remainder of my life? i'm so sad...please help