Thu, Feb-15-07, 18:43
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Senior Member
Posts: 795
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Plan: Lo-carb/calorie counting
Stats: 148/125/125
BF:
Progress: 100%
Location: Canada
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Faithnj
I imagine the truth is, when you are very obese-- you feel like his question is the un-asked question of polite people around you everywhere, every day. Perhaps you feel silently judged....and if people would just say what they were thinking-- then you could speak up for yourself.
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I have to admit that I am guilty of this. I HAVE wondered how that person got that size. I've never been obese, and I DO wonder sometimes how that happens to people to that extent. I have a better understanding now, but on some level I have a hard time relating to it. I don't really think that I'm judgemental in wondering about how it happened. It's more plain curiosity or seeking to understand it.
I know that some people were really insulted by the OP's question and I'm sorry if I've angered anyone - but it IS a question that probably lots of people ask themselves.
Faith, I really enjoyed your post.
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