I have lost a lot of sizes...from a 22+w to an 8 ladies. I have never been considered "unattractive", but was often told by my mom that I had "such a pretty face", and that I should loose weight to let my beauty show. Well, I didn't think that it would make a real difference...but I am getting lots of stares and smiles from men!! My husband is so insecure (he is very overweight), and told me that he is scared that I will leave him soon to "explore other options",,we have been married 18 years!!! Has anyone else had this happen?? I told him that I am this size now, and I am not going to change back for him or anyone because I am the happiest and healthiest I have ever been. He told me that he doesn't want me to change back, in fact, he really likes the new me, he is just scared...what can I do to make him feel better???