That's what I feel like after a cheat! I feel like an idiot, coming back to the forum and giving advice to others when I just cheated! I do keep coming back because I know it helps me get back on track, but still, I always think "geez, if this person that I'm giving advice/tips/opinions to goes to my journal and sees that I cheated, they're going to think I'm such a hypocrite!". Anybody else feel this way?!?

Nicole

No, cause we are only human. When we cheat and then give advice, it's just that we've been there and know that hey, this isn't working so dont do it. Don't cheat cause I did and now my tummy hurts. It's just advice.


Lily

No, I'd rather have someone who's been there than someone who would say "Well, I haven't cheated for 2 years and I've kept my 17.5 pounds off, so what's your problem" . How can someone help me back up if they don't have the experience of being there?


H

We each need to share our experiences in hopes of helping each other. I should be a real pro on cheats by now !!

Just the reason I thought it strange that the parish Priest offers marriage counselling... do i want advice from someone who's never been there? No.

I've fallen more often than I care to think of, but someone has in their signature somewhere that it's not how many times you fall that matter... it's how many times you get UP.

Nikil, I would rather have advice from someone like you, who cheated, knows the results, can explain why NOt to do it - the hypocrites are those who BRAG about cheating, and then attempt to justify it! I have gotten some of my best advice from you! Please don't ever stop posting advice etc