Fri, Aug-02-02, 08:07
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Senior Member
Posts: 512
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Plan: Gluten-free/Low Carb/IF
Stats: 250/197/175
BF:?
Progress: 71%
Location: Dartmouth Nova Scotia
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I really know how you feel, I deal with exactly the same thing when I visit my Mother in law. What makes I worse is this is totally the pattern for my visits (over eating and high carb treats that is) and Ma is famous for her baking and she's justifiably proud of it. I don't want to hurt her feelings. I know the dynamic must be different with your real mother but when I visited…
I took food for at least one natural (trust me, no protein powder on this occasion), low carb meal, saying it was the least I could do and letting her know I was just showing appreciation for hospitality.
I brought macadamia nuts to share but mostly as a decoy snack I could reach for when everyone else grabbed a handful of cookies.
I was very low-key about my choices, I didn't make a big deal about not eating the stuff, I even said the biscuits were lovely but I was just too full…
Eating is sooo emotional for me I try and diffuse these situations rather than confront them, that's certainly not how a lot of people might approach it.
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