Hi all!
I hope everyone is doing well with their LCing! I had another great day...no cheats...gave away (lent) my scale to a friend, so it is no longer here calling my name!
I just have a few questions/comments...
I have been following this WOL for about a month now (and I have seen amazing results so far!), and a few of my closest friends are also trying to convert to this WOE as well. One of them is doing really well, although had a setback as she stepped on the scale for the first time after 2 months of LCing and didn't see what she had expected, or hoped for (although she had no idea what her start weight was, so her old clothes being way too big is the only way she knows it is working). In my opinion it wasn't a setback, just a disappointment. Another one is flip flopping back and forth (between LC and "other") and not seeing much in the way of results, because of all the negative feedback she is getting about this WOE. Yet another friend feels that the Canada Food Guide is the only healthy way to eat (the pyramid, which to me seems upside down), although she followed a modified BFL plan for a while and is looking great.
I look here for support, and always get it..thanks everyone!
The problem being that I find that this WOL is all I ever get to talk about anymore. I feel that I am becoming obsessed with the weight and WOE issue, and it is great that I get to share experiences and advice with friends, but it is very frustrating that we never seem to talk about anything else anymore. This is probably not the case with others here who are doing this on their own...and believe it or not, I envy you some days.
The friend who has been on this WOE for 2 months now, in my inexperienced opinion, is not getting enough: 1. food, 2. vegetables, and 3. supplements (in fact none at all), and I really worry about her long term health. The one that is flip-flopping, I worry about her being too negative about her results because, since she cheats a fair bit, and doesn't know too much about the WOL (although she read Atkins, more or less the juicy parts though) I fear that she will be soured on the idea, and I will not hear the end of it...she tends to give up pretty easily some times. And she definitely isn't seeing the results that she could be. If the first friend ends up unhealthy I REALLY don't want to have the two of them gang up on me to tell me how wrong it is. The other friend looks great, mainly to do with her exercise habits, and her eating habits aren't that bad either, although she does consume a fair amount of breads, etc. I try to give constructive advice, but no one seems to listen.
I feel that I have to be "obsessed" to a certain extent to keep myself motivated...and trust me I almost never crave anymore...but does anyone have any ideas on how I can "help" my friends to understand more fully this WOL so that we can stop talking about it ALL THE TIME and my life can return to some form of normalcy? I am so tired of talking about my weight and what I ate all the time...don't get me wrong, here is where I want to vent that sort of stuff, because I can track my progress and others can learn from my experiences...It's like I feel great about my progress and what I am doing, and then by the end of the day I just feel overloaded, and just wish I had never told anyone about it.
I AM SO FRUSTRATED!!!!!
Sorry, had to vent...I apologize for the length...if anyone actually made it all the way through.
Happy LCing everyone! Someday the whole weight issue will be a distant memory and I can put all this "obsessing" to rest for good and just maintain.
KC