In weight loss, dont compare yourself to a man--it will only make you either hate yourself or men (in jealousy)
Your weight loss is right on target though a little slower than some folks. Angela's advice is very good.
This is not a "diet" where "one little bite" does not count or matter. If it tosses you out of ketosis, you'll halt loss for 3 days or so. So two minor 'cheats' per week can stop loss dead in its tracks. Be meticulous--no gum, mints, or tastes.
That said, it's probably time for you to raise your carb level a bit--all as healthy green veggies (and maybe some berries now and then). Sometimes people who stall at 20 g will suddenly start losing at 30 or 40 g.
Finally, if you do indeed lose more slowly (it's too soon to tell, really), alter your expectations. If you are a slower loser, expect about 3 pounds a month loss from now on. Only weigh once a month (after TOM). Spend your mental energies not on frustration, but on devising and executing an exercise program that works for you, on volunteer work, on reading up on LC, on your favorite crafts.
Think through the long-term effect of several months on track--at 3 pounds a month, you'd still be 30 pounds lighter next New Year's Eve! A benefit of slower loss is that it gives you time to develop good habits that last a lifetime.
We have a forum on "turtles" and one on "stalls"--read through posts on both forums for more info.
HTH!