Im not an old timer to the program, but I am an old timer to the weight loss yo yo !
When I was a kid, if I didnt do sports, and thank you Dad for forcing me, I would have been tubby-thats the way I was before I joined teams in Jr High, and thats how I stayed slim.
Sometime after college when I was inactive other than work, I gained weight.
Its been back and forth since then.
That is why I went on this plan , because unlike most plans you can do this one and be successful for life.
Not having your dh support is really bad and there is a chapter on that you need to read in Dr Atkins New Diet Revolution. The tips on how to handle that are there.
What you need to know is that by following the plan you will take off and keep off the weight. If you follow each phase you will grow vigilant about your health and your weight and will be healthy for life. The conflicting advice is a part of why two thirds of Americans are overweight and a third of them obese. The food pyramid is more to blame for that than anything but television watching.
Your best bet for fighting the criticism is to read the book. Then read whatever you can.
All of the things you listed you will eat again. There are low carb versions of each of them. And splenda and sugar are pretty much interchangable.
Missing food is normal, but part of what you will realize following Atkins is that controlling what you eat mentally is the essential willpower of any weight loss plan. If you can do this you will win.
Most important and often overlooked part of the Atkins plan is exercise. All that new energy can now be put to use. If you lose weight and exercise or just exercise you will be less at risk for many life threatening illnesses. This is the convincing argument with the hubby-you want to be around. Would be nice if he was there with you. When he sees your success he will follow !! You can inspire him and that will inspire you.
Look at the success stories and you will see the results that this plan offers. I know 3 people who have followed this for years and all have lost and kept a lot of weight off. Most importantly they are now aware of their overall health. That is the important thing about this plan it makes you care about yourself.