I understand how frustrating your situation must be. Not that it is exactlly the same but my son is autistic and a real handful a lot of the time. I have no childcare and no break. People at work say oh he's not that bad you can hardly tell he's different....Well I don't hear any of them volunteering to watch him for a bit so I can get a break...even when they knew I was stressed, depressed and desperate.

Good news however I think he has been approved for Respite care 30 hours a month so maybe i will get a break if this works out...well i will keep you in my thoughts. i work with a lot of people with dementia and organic brain syndromn and I know what a chalange you are going through