I feel your pain, I have been there so many times. I dont know what makes them feel they can talk to us that way. If they think that they are helping us, theyre not, it only makes it worse. Try not to get so upset, I have had to be tough so try to be. Over time they find out that it doesnt get to you so they dont get any satisfaction out of it anymore. He has no right to say those things to you. And he knows nothing of this WOE, dont listen to him, some ppl you just cant please. This decision you made was for you, so do it for yourself, you dont need to do it for him. Think of only yourself, we need to do that sometimes. Best of luck to you, and I'll come back and visit you again.

Take care

Shannon