OH TONYA!! I have been there, except at least he said something to you, instead of having to find out from the girl that he was cheating on you with.....that's what happened to me. My boyfriend (ex boyfriend)of a year and a half actually cheated on me with a "friend" of mine. One day she decided to tape a conversation and asked why he didn't want to be with me anymore.....he told her it was because I was too fat and that he was upset that I couldn't lose the weight instantly for him. Did he think that it was all gonna disappear within a minute? Hour? Day? That really hurt me inside and it still hurts, but I figured out that it doesn't matter what he thought. I have low self-esteem, which I am working on. Emotional abuse doesn't helpa nd if that was what was going on, it's maybe better you're not with him. I hope this post helps you with your situation...