The fact that you got on the support forum instead of grabbing a candy bar shows that you don't want to sabotage yourself - good for you!

I know what you mean about teenage girls being awful and mean and deceitful towards their father - it's so hard to watch it and bite your tongue. They're really good at punching those buttons, and at that age it's never occured to them that just because they can doesn't mean they have to do it. Really, in a few years (I know that seems like forever right now), it will all be over.