I always though a seld-conident person was sexy. If you're uncomfortable with yourself then you're bound not to feel particularly sexy, but with me that only extends to things outside my relationship.
Me and my man adore each other - we're both on Atkins and I'm really going to miss his belly when it's gone - I love it! I love the way he feels and the way he looks, but he wants to lose 4 stone. All the men I went out with before him were thin or medium build - he's the only big man I've ever been with and it's a huge improvement! I adore every little piece of him and I could just cuddle him all day. The only thing in the way of intimacy is work (We both work v long hours and I worka split shift too).
If you truly love each other, what's the problem?
I can't wait for him to come home with his belly ............