Blush Blush - since gaining 20 lbs I have felt so unattractive that I am sure my husband would not be interested in me. He says I am crazy but I can't help but feel when the media is so full of sexy images of perfect women that he would be turned off by my bulginess. A few months ago I really enjoyed wearing sexy little things around the house for him but now I think I would just look revolting and am constantly saying turn the light out so you can't see my big butt or when he touches me I accuse him of trying to judge how much fat is on me. Am I the only one who acts this way? I would also be interested in hearing how men feel about this - a man who is not worried that I'm about to poisen his coffee if he gives the wrong answer