I agree with Lisa-

Something is obviously wrong here. I have a few suggestions

Post your menus so we can see if something strikes us as a red flag. If you have a fitday.com journal-you can post a link to it here

Go see your doctor. There are other drugs besides Paxil that help and don't have the same side effects. ALso, maybe there is something biochemically going on that is preventing weight loss. Hormonal imbalance, food allergy or intolerance...

Have you measured at all? Are you losing inches and not weight or are all losses stopped? I feel your frustration and I really hope we can help track down what is going on with you.