The difference between your before and in-progress pictures is, well, startling. You have a great body now, you don't look like the same person, and your relatives are not blind so therefore they must be jealous a-holes. Sorry, but I feel kind of angry about what they're saying to you. For heaven's sake don't let people as unworthy as this derail you. You're in the home straight, almost there. I agree with Judy that another 30lbs will make a sudden tremendous difference and at that point nobody will be able to make you question what you will see with your own eyes: a very slim, shapely woman. Ojoj is absolutely right: these same relatives will then tell you that you are too thin and look ill. Put your hands on your slim, sexy hips, throw your head back, and laugh right in their faces!