Hi Moonbeam....

Sorry you had a bad experience. I did to at my heaviest in a magazine personal.

I have a real belief system about this kind of thing. I think life is to be lived to the fullest even when you are single. I think the best way to meet people is face to face. I mean if you were dating where would you be going? So why aren't you going to those places now to meet that person or at least live your life now.

Join a book club, go see that movie you wanted to on your own, go to the library, park (well maybe a little cold now), join a gym, have a cup of coffee in a diner or coffee shop.

This is the way to know that when you meet someone they like your appearance and if you don't meet someone you are out there meeting people and enjoying life today.

Just my $.02.

Sometimes I wish I had it to do all over again knowing what I know now...