Welcome to the forum Jan, and I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. Everybody else is right, you need to take care of yourself so that you can be strong mentally and physically for your husband. I'm not a medical professional, but a former co-worker's mother-in-law was diagnosed with cancer a few years back and she started something called macrobiotic eating. From what little she told me about it, it's a eating concept that's supposed to come from a Chinese saying "food and medicine from the same source" or something like that. I've lost contact with her after we both quit working at the same place, but I thought maybe it's something that you could look into for your husband in addition to his conventional treatments. I wish you all the strength and courage in getting through this. People here are very caring and wonderful, so if you need support and encouragement, this is a great place to be.