Oh, let me follow that up with an example. I was working biceps the other day and my girlfriend comes up and squeezes them and says something like: "Oh yeah, that really turns me on." So what do I do? I keep pumping and working those badboys, trying to make them bigger. Was I happy with the size beforehand? Sure, plus I like being strong. Is it a motiviator that she thinks it is sexier or that it can make her more excited? You bet! Now if another chick comes up and states, " I am not in to that, big muscles are yucky." Do I care? Nope. My opinions on the matter are based on three things. I like the look. I like being strong. My girdlfriend likes it and it turns her on.

Does it make me shallow for having my opinion affected by someone I am intimate with? Definitely not. I want to appeal to her and only her. I don't care what others think.

Now if she asked me to shave my head and get a tattoo on my scalp, I'd have to put my foot down...hehe

TC