Fantastic girl,
I am so happy for you!!!

Now dear TOM-you wrote:
If he's marrying you at your current weight, then like me, he has a heart for the person inside. However, as you are dropping those inches, you may want to remind him that he does have some say in how much of the curves you opt to keep.

Ooops, you really didn't mean to say that if loves her for her heart then go on to advise her to tell him that he has a say in what she weighs. Total contradiction of term-loves her for her heart. Tell me you didn't really mean that-please!!! What does weight/curves have to do with heart.

I know I am being a little harsh to you. Personally, I wear my hair short -when I was single if a guy told me I should grow it long for him that was the last date. If love is true any wt change shouldn't make a difference right? Tell me that is what you meant to say (he,he,he)
Jan