I understand where you are coming from. I'm still way fat but everyone at work knows that I don't eat junk or sugar and that I exercise daily. They go on their candy runs and chocolate gorges but at least they respect what I am doing. So many folks at work had weight loss surgery that I'm seen as a curiosity...why don't you get surgery or join the hospital weight loss plan? I like my guts the way they are. Anyway, the point is that I'm also not in the club.

I also try to make things better for everyone. I think many fat folks do, but not all. I added a quote from the movie The Book of Eli to my sig and use it when I want to step in and help.