Hi Tonya -

First things first - I know it's hard, but maybe this is the kick in the pants you need (so to speak) to get motivated enough to lose some weight. I've always been heavy myself, and when my marriage ended and I realized I'd have to be out there meeting new men, I knew it was time to face reality and do something about it. I was afraid no men would be attracted to me and want to date me.

You are the only one who has any control over it and can do anything about it. Take some time to get over your relationship ending, but then try to look on the bright side of things and see what this experience has taught you. Hopefully it'll be just what you need to get yourself going on a weight loss plan.

I like Atkins so far - I never feel hungry or deprived. Give it a try - you have everything to lose