Gender seems to play a part in weight loss, we men seem to have it easier. I don't know if it is because we do not attempt as many diets, or if it is genetic.

Hang in there! Trust me it's worth it. I feel 100% better with the weight gone.

Keep an eye on what you eat. I am an Atkins person, and have found THE BOOK to be a great help. Those carbs can sneak up on you.