Hi KBkris,

I happen to be 7 years older than my soon to be husband. We have been together 6 years and have a toddler and a baby.

As I gained weight with quitting smoking and two pregnancies my self confidence plummeted, and Chris being younger than me, the local tennis and squash champ AND gorgous just did not help matters at all, lol.

I had to want to get up of my bum and start fixing this, and Chris has been sympathetic, supportive and never stopped telling me I was beautiful, AND making me believe him.

I have no doubt you are a caring and wonderful husband, and I'd like to suggest that you step up the romance and flattery a notch. Praise and feeling accepted are wonderful motivators. And suggest activities that are outside. Start easy with going for walks along a scenic route or even mini golf. Just as long as its outside and snacking isnt an option. Its a good start

Once shes feeling a little better about herself you can tackle the menu then.
good luck