I have to say, I kinda feel the way you do about the obsessed thing. It seems that's all I think about too. Maybe when I finally accept that I am only human and am not a repulsive sight, then maybe I can eat this way knowing it's making a heathier person.(not a skinny one.) My DH loves ME. not my pant size.(14-16) I have three children and at the age of 27 I will not be a size 7 like high school. So, let's concentrate on us, not this diet. Think about the happy holidays and that we have already lost some weight and let's be happy with that. POSITIVE THOUGHTS!!!

Have a great day!
Amy