Marilyn, I am sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter~ I know no words will fill the void left inside of you at her passing,... and I understand the grief... excesses in sleeping and eating... altho I have not yet talked about it here... I lost 2 babies before they were born... my oldest son will be 26 in November, my 2nd son is 22, and lil miss KaeLyn just turned 1... my goes out to you~ and altho I am not weighing in my higher 300's, I am carrying too much weight for my body... so far in a month... I have lost 20 lbs., and you can do it too... the ppl here are GREAT SUPPORT!! and shoulders to cry on... and smiles to share... welcome here... we hope to see you succeed with your goals~