I really understand what you are saying. My daughters are 24 and 29 and the pictures of me and them are few and far between. I really regret it now. There is no way to go back and time and get those pics of us together when they were kids. No matter what weight you are, you are their mother, and those pics will be priceless to them long after you are gone. Don't do what I did - take those pics and leave them with something that is priceless!! Cindi