My take on this is that having a couple beers on a Friday night is that you need to adjust your WOE to fit your lifestyle. Since this is something that you and your husband enjoy, I would switch to the Michelob ultra light beer and enjoy a couple beers on Friday nights without feeling guilty over it. It may take you longer to reach your numerical goal, but isn't the overall goal controlling your weight with a WOE that works for you? I know many folks probably disagree, but that's what I would do.
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