I totally agree, and what I would like to say sort of goes along with what you said...I absolutely HATE it when some one tells me that if I am not loosing, then there must be something wrong with me physically, emotionally, or otherwise, that I need to see a doctor,(not all of us have insurance, or can afford to go to the doctor, just to be told that the only thing wrong is that I am fat, well DUH!! I never noticed!!), that I need to take anti-depressants (so I had a bad dang day, so what?? You've NEVER had one? Lucky you!). I completely get where you are comming from, and Thank you for standing up and saying so!!