Fri, Aug-09-02, 16:52
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Senior Member
Posts: 1,665
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Plan: My own
Stats: 340/340/180
BF:way/too/much
Progress: 0%
Location: Saskatchewan, Canada
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Personally, I think it's an excellent idea. The most important thing would be to offer continued support, not just a flood of empathy and then no further contact.
I've been sitting here wondering how I would've reacted if someone had done it for me, and I'm honestly not sure. She might tell you to go to H*** or she might cry and placate you into believing that she wants to change. She may take a genuine interest and make changes....it's really hard to say. Maybe share your story in person, rather than writing a letter, unless you're too far away and give her some options and talk with her about them.
Find out what SHE wants (what a concept...took me a long time to learn it too!) It certainly couldn't hurt....the worst thing you can do to a problem...or a child with one, is to ignore them. Think it through and follow your heart. Good luck and keep us posted!
Nicole
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