Girl, you didn't "cave in" to Paxil. You made the decision that things are too hectic right now to try to make major changes. I honestly think that was a GOOD decision, don't you?

If you're in the process of building a house AND you have some marital problems right now, then I definitely agree that now is not the best time to tackle weaning yourself off of Paxil. (Of course, I'm not a doctor and I don't know all of your situation.)

I'm here for you, girl.