Lori-Jo,

I felt your post was a little defensive but then I realised I was defending my choice too. It's become an automatic response for me over the years - like changing the gear without thinking of it

I think sometimes we tend to "internalise" and "compare" without being consciously aware that we are setting ourselves a standard that could possibly be understandably difficult to measure up to.

You are so right - words have diferent associations for each individual.

Take Loving, Accepting, Understanding Care